We are socially conditioned to believe in the negative……….
June 30th, 2009Posted in Change, Peace, Dharma, prosperity, Happiness, Power of thought, Mental Healing, self-worth, Michael Jackson, a time for change, age of aquarius, The New age of Aquarius, Universal Laws, Guru, ego, energy, creation, Karma, wellness, Self Esteem, Peacefullness, Circle of life, OM, life, Health & Wellness, Yoga Meaning, positive thinking | No Comments »
Why does it take only 1 day to create a bad habit or break a good one, yet it takes 30-40 days to create at positive habit? I believe it is because we are socially conditioned to believe in the negative. When you take time to analyze it, you see that we are constantly being bombarded by the media to have faith in the bad! We are only shown one side of the story and usually that is the bad side. Take for instance all the media coverage with Michael Jackson’s death. When the media was covering it, they would show clips of his hey days, yet they would always go back to the bad days of the trial. We lost a beautiful being and that is what should be covered. We should respect the fact, and allow his family to grieve in peace. I know from very personal experience, that when you lose someone in such a tragic way, one needs time to take it all in, digest it and work through the agony to be able to find peace within the space of this tragic event. The last thing you want is to continue hearing and reliving this event every time you turn on the radio or watch TV and even worse the internet. Why do they need to point out all of the bad? When you stop to think about it, 80% of the bad news is reported 100% of the time. The other 20% is good news that never gets any air time. I have yet to see any station courageous enough to report only good news! The sad part is that the reporters would be lost, they do not know how to search and report on good news. We as humans have the distinct tendency to believe the bad and fall into a feeling of disbelief when someone shares any good news. So you see how we are socially conditioned to believe in the bad. This is the major reason it take us so long to work on changing those bad beliefs to positive more productive ones. We need to begin to change these behaviors. This can be achieved by working on them daily. Instead of expecting the bad, try expecting the good. It may be hard at first, and you may feel like a hypocrite but as Yoda says “try you must”! We all owe it to ourselves and to the universe. So today instead of finding fault with yourself in any way, find one thing that is good about you and be thankful for that! Each day find one more thing until slowly we all begin to ebb away at that socially conditioned behavior and break free from this dream of our inadequate self!
In love and light,
Namaste,